Hostess with the Mostess

I've been visiting my niece Lori and her family near Annapolis, Maryland for almost a week now. I'm sure they are getting anxious to return to 'family normal' mode. I don't think that because I haven't felt welcome - certainly just the opposite - but only because I understand what it is to have something or someone new in the family dynamic to throw off your rhythm. And what a wonderful family they are...

Dad Ken is retired Navy (Lt. Commander) and now works in the weapons industry. He is a broad-shouldered man of Scot/Irish descent with a quick wit and strong political opinions. Born in Delaware, he has that northeastern accent that is difficult for westerners to place. It is clear to anyone observing that his family is of utmost importance to him.

Niece Lori Jean is the one that probably would have been voted "nicest cousin" among her Stewart cousins. She has inherited her mother's gift for making people feel loved and welcome in a manner that seems effortless - but of course is not. If you have a mental picture of Lori, it would be with a great big smile. She wants to be sure her guests have every opportunity to see/do everything they can in the time they have with her. She is tenderhearted with people and animals. She loves her family and the friends they have made over the years. She home teaches her sons in order to give them the best possible opportunities.

Ian is nearly 14 and getting taller every day. He is already much taller than his auntie (me). He has many interests that include swimming, sports, scouts and tae kwon do. Already in his short life he has lived in places many people only dream of. He is polite and handsome. He has an innate grace and confidence that only a few people are lucky enough to possess. I expect great things from him.

Cullen is 12. He and his brother get along very well. He enjoys scouts and sports, as well as reading. He is very creative and inventive. This week he carefully crafted a blow-gun from some sticks so he could shoot small objects. He worked very hard on it and it was successful. Cullin has a quick and funny wit. He has a twinkle in his eye that lets you know he is always thinking. He has a big heart and loves animals.

I've spent time with Lori and her family before, but every time I do I'm reminded how very special they are. The boys will grow up with all sorts of options and opportunities before them. They will chose wisely. I can't wait to see what happens next.